A femdom relationship can mean a multitude of different things. Whether it is a husband-and-wife dynamic or a dominatrix dynamic, the parameters of that relationship can vary. A common aspect of femdom relationships is femdom humiliation. Each couple is different, and you will have to lay out the rules prior, but exploring femdom humiliation can add more arousal to the situation already in place. This article will go over a variety of ideas relating to femdom humiliation and explain more of the reasoning behind the premise.
What is femdom humiliation?
Femdom humiliation, sometimes referred to as erotic humiliation, is the act of the dominant individual having the submissive partner complete acts that are considered humiliating. This could involve a large spectrum of different techniques that would be viewed as a humiliation.
From cum eating to ass licking, small penis humiliation, or eating food off the floor, various tasks can be performed. These acts can also be a public spectacle or private (if you’re into public humiliation or group humiliation, be sure to only play in a safe environment and avoid breaking any laws!).
21 Femdom Humiliation Ideas
Diving into femdom humiliation can be exciting for both the submissive and dominant partners. With many ways to achieve the humiliation, we’ve compiled a list of some of the best situations. From relatively tame to extreme techniques, you’ll be sure to gain some exciting ideas for you both will enjoy.
1. Cuckold humiliation
This is a type of humiliation where the dominant partner engages in a sexual act with another person while the submissive watches. There are two ways you can achieve this sort of humiliation.
One way is the dominant can physically do the act, simple enough. If those are not terms the submissive agrees with, you can roleplay the act for fun. The second way is to roleplay; this is when the dominant leaves the house claiming they will “fuck someone else.” During the time the dominant is gone, repetitive texts can be sent describing the filthy things the fictitious person is doing to the dominant.
Whichever you choose, they’re both exciting ways dominants can humiliate their submissives by letting them know they’re being pleasured by someone else while their sub watches or sits at home.
2. Sissy humiliation
Sissy humiliation is a great way to humiliate the submissive partner. The premise is to dress the submissive up in female attire and make them complete tasks typically deemed for a woman. You can put panties on them, lingerie, make-up, and other female clothing to take away their masculinity.
3. Collared and dog roleplay
One good way to humiliate the submissive is by putting a collar around their neck and forcing them to act like a dog. Make them walk on all fours, eat dinner out of a dog bowl, make them sleep on a dog bed, and (for those without shame) make them use a puppy pad as a toilet.
4. Cum play and cum eating
Few acts are more humiliating than making a submissive play with or eat their own cum. The submissive can be forced to masturbate and eat their own cum, or they can be told to lick it after finishing in their partner (known as a cream pie). Cum eating can also factor into cuckold situations, such as when the dominant makes her sub eat another man’s cum.
5. Small penis humiliation (SPH)
Let the submissive know just how laughable his dick is. Laugh at it, call him a small dick bitch. The dominant should use any verbiage that makes it known the submissive’s dick is just too small to satisfy her.
6. Drink urine
Have the submissive consume the dominant’s urine. This can be a great finish to a golden shower, when the dominant urinates on her submissive.
7. Rimming
Rimming, also known as eating ass, is often incorporated into humiliation play. You can have the submissive lick the dominant’s behind with their tongue until they are pleased.
8. Foot worship
The submissive kisses, licks, and devours the dominant’s feet for however long is required while on their hands and knees.
9. Orgasm humiliation
If the dominant is feeling nice, she can allow her submissive to cum but only in the most embarrassing way. Humping the floor or bed with handcuffed hands or using odd objects to masturbate with, for example. You can add more humiliation by making him lick up his mess afterward.
10. Orgasm denial by using a dildo
This works for men in chastity by allowing them to participate in sex but using a dildo instead of their own dick. Letting their dominant partner have as many orgasms as they want, and the sub not being allowed to even touch his own cock. Check out these ideas for chastity slaves
11. Make them ride a dildo
Making the submissive ride a dildo in front of a group can really add an element of humiliation. With everyone watching, the dominant should get a lot of enjoyment.
12. Make him beg for everything
The sub must beg for permission to do anything, such as using the bathroom, taking a shower, or even scratching an itch. The dominant can control every aspect of their sub, and the sub better behave.
13. Make him wear a butt plug all-day
Making the submissive wear a butt plug all day combined with verbal insults can be a great strategy.
14. Face slapping
The submissive has to put their hand behind their back and take however many slaps across the face the dominant sees fit.
15. Verbal humiliation
The dominant can verbally humiliate the submissive all day long, using phrases like “stupid little bitch” or “worthless piece of shit.” Anything that is verbally degrading. It’s encouraged for the dominant to do this in front of others.
16. Make him sleep on the floor
Sleeping on the floor is humiliating, especially when the dominant has a nice, soft, comfortable bed to enjoy alone.
17. Treat him like a baby
Feeding the sub while out at a restaurant, forcing him to wear a diaper, make him only communicate like a baby.
18. Forced masturbation
Forcing the sub to masturbate in a public place – just don’t do anything illegal!
19. Group servant
Force the submissive to serve a group of the dommes friends wearing a maids uniform.
20. Shave his entire body
Body hair is synonymous with masculinity, so shaving the sub’s entire body feminized him. They’ll be humiliated when they go to the gym without any leg hair!
21. Public humiliation
Most of the ideas listed above can be conducted in a public setting. Public humiliation really adds to the experience. In private, even though humiliated with such a task, adding a group of friends (or even strangers) to the equation can really make the experience that much more humiliating. Be sure to only involve consenting adults who know what to expect if you go this route – never expose the sub to someone who doesn’t know what you’re doing and hasn’t given their permission to be involved.
