Femdom Milking 101: Your Guide to Milking

Whether you’re in a full-fledged D/s relationship or you’re simply looking for a new way to spice up the bedroom, femdom milking could be a great addition to your sexy play. Here’s everything you need to know to get started.

What is Femdom Milking?

Femdom milking, or forced milking, is when a dominant woman coaxes cum out of her submissive male partner, either through manual stimulation of the penis or the prostate, or both. While it might sound similar to a handjob, edging, or typical prostate play, there are some distinct nuances that differentiate femdom milking.

Unlike a “standard” handjob that’s given purely for pleasure, milking has a different context: it’s not about pleasure so much as it’s about extracting cum. Milking is common in D/s relationships, where the dominant partner milks the submissive partner as part of their play.

Should You Try Femdom Milking?

There is no single “right” way to incorporate femdom milking into your play, as sessions can be nurturing, frustrating, or even emotionless.

For example, femdoms can milk their subs like cattle, quickly working to release semen (you can even get a milking machine for this purpose).

Or they can edge their subs mercilessly, employing milking as part of orgasm denial. Indeed, for some men, it’s possible to stimulate the prostate to force ejaculation without the pleasure of orgasm. In this manner, milking can also be part of male chastity play, where the keyholder grants her sub release without allowing him to achieve an erection or enjoy the ecstasy of orgasm.

Milking can also be a nurturing, even a bonding, experience, where one partner slowly stimulates a male until he cums. The point is, there are many ways to enjoy femdom milking, and you should experiment with ideas that align with your desires and relationship dynamic.

That said, femdom milking is not about the sub. It’s about pleasing the dominant partner, who has total control. If that appeals to you and your partner, you might enjoy femdom milking.

It’s worth noting that many men say a prostate orgasm is more intense than a “normal” orgasm, and the prostate is sometimes called the male G-spot. You can combine prostate stimulation with a handjob for an ultra-intense milking session.

Femdom Milking Tips

Consider these tips if you’re new to milking.

Plan sessions that align with your desires and relationship dynamic. For example, long, slow edging sessions for orgasm control and denial or fast, emotionless sessions for milking like livestock
You can milk a man via handjob, the prostate alone, or a combination thereof – as long as you extract the cum
The prostate is located about an inch in the anus. Gently massage it for stimulation
Consider incorporating toys such as prostate vibrators and even milking tables
Always use plenty of lube and go slow

If you’re into torturing or humiliating your sub, you can:

Get every last drop out with post-orgasm torture
Make the sub repeatedly cum against his wishes
Have him lick his cum up after being milked

Above all, go slow and be safe!

Related: Chastity Training 101

Femdom Milking Toys to Enhance Your Experience

Prostate toys

Prostate toys, accordingly, stimulate the prostate. They come in various shapes, sizes, and configurations, from dildos to vibrators to prostate massagers.

Milking tables

Milking tables are sort of like massage tables, except there is a hole cut out for the man’s cock and balls to hang through. Their partner sits under the table with complete access to the goods. In bondage play, the man is often tied and helpless up top.

Femdom milking machines

Sometimes called cock milking machines, these machines stimulate a man’s penis and pump like a cow milking machine to extract and collect cum.

Femdom milking can be an extraordinary way to spice up your relationship, whether you live a D/s dynamic or just want to explore something new with your partner. Follow the tips outlined here to make your femdom milking sessions sensational!