Ready to dip your toes into the world of male chastity but unsure how to put on a chastity cage? Follow our step-by-step guide to safely and securely putting on a cock cage.
Prepare to put on a chastity cage
Learning how to put on a cock cage properly can involve a few preparations. You want it to be a quick, breezy experience. Here are some top-notch instructions to show you how to put on a chastity cage.
Trimming
This is not a requirement, but it is recommended to trim the pubic area to avoid any pulling or tugging of the pubic hairs. Until you are more experienced and get used to the chastity cage, we would suggest waiting on completely shaving. This would avoid any chafing or itching that may occur. Trimming the pubic hair back is all you would need to do, but of course, that will be entirely up to you and what you are comfortable with.
Lube
Putting on a chastity cage can become easier with the use of lubrication. Any store-bought lube will do the trick, but you can also use coconut oil to help provide assistance with putting on the male chastity cage.
The lube will provide easier maneuvering of the cock cage – but don’t overdo it, or the cage could get too slippery, and you’ll find yourself fumbling to put it together or secure the lock.
Get Off
The thought of putting on a chastity cage for a man who desires it can lead to extreme arousal, but attempting to put a cock cage on a rock-solid dick is almost impossible. You want to be completely flaccid for this event.
Releasing any pressure by masturbating or having sex will lend a hand in keeping your cock flaccid enough to slip nicely into the cock cage – with the keyholder’s permission, of course.
Read the directions
Most sellers usually offer detailed instructions to assist in putting the male chastity cage on. Not all chastity cages are the same, and some are secured differently. For example, some male chastity cages use the piercing method (a ring through the head of the penis that locks into the device) and others rely on waist locks.
The purpose of this article is to focus on the most popular type of male chastity cage, the ball trap device. These devices typically use cock rings that go over the cock and scrotum. Some devices come with a hinged ring and some are a solid ring. Make sure you read the manufacturer’s instructions and know which device you are using and the best method to apply.
Get help
You are most certainly capable of putting the chastity cage on yourself, but if you are experiencing the chastity lifestyle with your partner, having the extra hands to help assist is encouraged.
Not only can you and your partner experience an exciting moment together, but having someone help secure the cock cage and be an extra set of eyes can be extremely useful. Go slow, be careful to avoid pinching, and make sure the cage is fully secure.
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How to put on a chastity cage, step-by-step instructions
1. Place the ring
First, determine what kind of ring comes with your cock cage. Some rings are hinged, making it easier to open and close around your cock and balls. Other rings are solid and must be slid on over your penis and scrotum.
It is recommended that you first slide the cock ring over your balls. Using lube, gently pull each ball through the cock ring, ensuring no pinching or extra skin is behind the ring. You want to be completely sure the entire scrotum is on the other side of the ring.
Once your balls are properly secure on the other side of the ring, it is time to pull your cock through. This is where it is essential to have a completely flaccid dick. The rings are small, they are designed to not slip off, so it is a tight space you are working with.
Making sure it is properly lubed up, slowly slide your cock through the ring until it is fully on the other side and the ring is touching the base. As a tip, tilt the top of the ring slightly forward and then proceed to slide your cock through.
2. Secure the cock cage
Having a second pair of hands for this part can be helpful. Carefully slide the cage over your cock until it meets the ring. Take care to align it properly – some cages require pegs to be aligned in order to be secure. Some pegs are inserted before you put the cock cage on, and others clip in after. In either case, having a set of hands hold the base ring while the other aligns and secures the cage will make the process a bit easier.
Some cock cages come with spacers to help you with a more secure and comfortable fit. You can determine the proper size spacers by starting with the larger ones and working your way down until you find the best fit. Once the cage is on, make sure it is comfortable and no pinching occurs.
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3. Secure the lock
Once you have correctly aligned your male chastity cage and you are comfortable with the fit, it is time to secure the lock. If you are starting the chastity life with your partner, it is recommended that they do this part. It’s a symbolic first step to starting the chastity life together.
Double-check and make sure the cage is properly aligned, insert the lock, turn the key, and then that’s it! Your cage is on, and you’re all locked up; it is time to begin the wonderful experience of the chastity lifestyle.
The stocking method
Some people prefer the stocking method, in which you use a nylon or silk pantyhose for easier sliding. Start by cutting the stocking (or pantyhose) down a bit to get rid of unnecessary fabric. You should only need about 8 to 10 inches.
- Take the nylon stocking and fold the opening over until it lines up with the toe part of the stocking. In other words, if you had the sock on and folded it down, it should be the same concept.
- After you have folded it, place the stocking around your cock. Once around your cock, grab the cage and feed the stocking through the front. Usually, the urine hole, but if your cage does not have one, you can also use the sides of the cock cage.
- Put your cock encased in the stocking in your cage. Secure the cage and lock it. If this can’t be accomplished before you remove the stocking, put your dick in the cage’s opening and go to the next step.
- Slowly pull the sticking through the front of the cock cage until it is completely out. This method should have easily placed your penis in the correct spot to feel comfortable and secure. If not done already in the previous step, lock the cage.
Videos: How to put on a chastity cage
Written instructions don’t always do the trick, so you might find these videos helpful for when you’re putting on a chastity cage for the first time.
